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30 Things To Learn in Your 20s

March 28, 2017

30 Things To Learn in Your 20s by lifestyle blogger Amy of Coffee Beans and Bobby Pins

Today marks the big 3-0. I’d like to think I woke up richer, wiser, more accomplished and prettier, but the truth is, I didn’t. I woke up the same way I do every day, just a little bit older. 🙂 I feel like 30 should feel so different, like I should finally feel like I have it all figured out, but the truth is I don’t. Maybe that’s what the next decade will bring and at this time in ten years I’ll be discussing what I learned in my 30s instead of my 20s.

As adults, or humans for that matter, we’re always a work in progress. We learn every day, make mistakes, grow from them and then start over. But there are some things I learned in my 20s (some things I’ve now mastered, and some I’m still working on) that I thought it would be fun to share with you 30 things to learn in your 20s.

  1. Use sunscreen. Remember this song? It was cool when I was in high school and it’s so true. Wear sunscreen. Nothing will age you more than the sun (not to mention cancer risks) and thanks to great sunless tanners, you can get a great glow without the wrinkle (I love this). Also, get some skin care products and actually use them.
  2. It’s okay to say no and not give a reason. One I’m constantly working on, but never feel like you have to give a reason to someone for not doing something/going somewhere. You’re an adult and its okay not to say yes to everything.
  3. It’s also okay to say “yes” more. Sure, I need to do a number of things any given day, but sometimes just saying “yes” to something and being carefree is also much needed. It’s all about balance, but never feel the need to explain yourself.
  4. Be you, not who they want you to be. No one is better at being you, than you.
  5. Don’t worry about people that don’t like you. For every person who doesn’t, there are so many people that think you’re amazing.
  6. Know when to talk and when to listen. You should be listening 70% of the time, it makes you a good person and a good friend.
  7. Never go to bed with makeup on. Zits at 30, no thank you, also refer to #1 (it also ages you).
  8. Communication is the best gift you can have with those you love. It’s a bridge-way for so many things: solved problems, laughter, long distances, etc.
  9. Get rid of toxic friends. They should bring you up, not put you down. It’s better to have 4 quarters than 100 pennies just like 4 great friends are better than a bunch of asshole ones.
  10. Its okay to disagree with people, just remember to be polite while doing it.
  11. Wine > vodka. It’s also okay to splurge every now and then on a nice bottle.
  12. Only buy things you love. It will save you so much money and space.
  13. It’s okay to cry, sometimes even ugly cry. Don’t apologize for it, you’re human.
  14. Drink half of your body weight in ounces of water daily.
  15. Find a good tailor and use him or her. Having your clothes fit correctly means you’ll look great and feel great.
  16. Exercise is free therapy, but it’s okay to pay for therapy too.
  17. Judge less and TRY not to succumb to gossip or rumors. It’s hard, but try.
  18. Call your parents, not every day, but at least once a week. And don’t forget your dad, he likes phone calls too.
  19. Take time to unplug. Relax, put the phone down and just breathe.
  20. Don’t hold grudges. Forgiveness may take time, but try.
  21. Stop splurging on trends and invest in the classics. Great jeans, nude pumps, a white v-neck tee and a black blazer are my staples.
  22. Experiences over things. You’ll only keep the things for awhile, but the memories last forever.
  23. It’s okay to want something and then change your mind. You’re human, cut yourself some slack.
  24. Take time for yourself, but don’t be selfish.
  25. Stop comparing yourself. Comparison is the thief of joy. Someone is always doing better than you and someone is always doing worse.
  26. The only hangover cure is not getting drunk to begin with.
  27. The days are long, but the years are short. Love, pray and laugh as much as possible.
  28. Have one amazing thing you know how to cook. It will be your go-to for life.
  29. Tell people important to you that you love them. As much as possible.
  30. Be nice. It’s more rewarding and fulfilling than you can imagine.

30 Things To Learn in Your 20s by lifestyle blogger Amy of Coffee Beans and Bobby Pins

30 Things I Learned in my 20s | coffeebeansandbobbypins.com

30 Things To Learn in Your 20s by lifestyle blogger Amy of Coffee Beans and Bobby Pins

30 Things To Learn in Your 20s by lifestyle blogger Amy of Coffee Beans and Bobby Pins

30 Things I Learned in my 20s | coffeebeansandbobbypins.com

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Those are just some things I’m working on daily. Life is always a work in progress. Have a great day friends and thank you for making this blog something I am proud of each and every day, each and every year.

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30 Things To Learn in Your 20s by lifestyle blogger Amy of Coffee Beans and Bobby Pins

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  1. AvatarBrittany says

    March 28, 2017 at 7:39 AM

    Love!!!! All of these are great advice and I totally need to remember every one of them! Sunscreen and exercise have been my two major changes since turning 30! I’ve started to notice the difference when I don’t use them!

    Brittany 🙂
    http://www.kingdomofsequins.com

  2. AvatarLee says

    March 28, 2017 at 8:19 AM

    Happy Birthday! All great tips.
    xo, Lee

  3. AvatarNataly says

    March 28, 2017 at 9:50 AM

    Happy Birthday to you! Hope you have a great day! xo, Nataly

  4. AvatarTaylor Aube says

    March 28, 2017 at 9:55 AM

    This is such a sweet post! I love reading life advice like this – you are so wise! And looking lovely as ever in these pics!
    http://stopdropandvogue.com

  5. AvatarAshley DTKAustin says

    March 28, 2017 at 11:01 AM

    Such a great post!! I always love reading fun facts about fellow bloggers!! 🙂

  6. Avatardocdivatraveller says

    March 28, 2017 at 11:10 AM

    Happy Birthday Amy! I have been reading your blog since 2013 and look forward to doing so! All the best! You rock!
    http://www.docdivatraveller.com

  7. AvatarMakayla M. says

    March 28, 2017 at 12:58 PM

    I love this post!! All of those are so insightful!

    Xo Makayla
    http://www.fashionablykay.com

  8. AvatarSABRINA TAN says

    March 28, 2017 at 4:02 PM

    such a gorgeous dress and awesome post!

    Sabrina | Gypsy Tan

  9. AvatarMorgan says

    March 28, 2017 at 4:33 PM

    So many of these I’m still learning! Happy birthday!

    -Morgan
    How 2 Wear It [] http://how2wearit.com

  10. AvatarMariah says

    March 29, 2017 at 4:42 PM

    Happy Birthday! These are so helpful and good reminders. Thank you for sharing.

    http://moosmusing.com

  11. AvatarAnna Cobbs says

    March 30, 2017 at 8:48 AM

    We’re dress twins!!! I love this dress and it looks so beautiful on you!!

    xx – anna
    fleurdille.com

  12. AvatarHeidi says

    March 31, 2017 at 4:12 PM

    I absolutely adore this post! You put words to so many life lessons! Happy birthday lady.

    Heidi || Wishes & Reality

  13. Avataremily says

    March 31, 2017 at 4:30 PM

    1. This dress is AMAZING on you!
    2. Love love love all of your lessons… I need to take note on a few 😉
    3. I can’t wait to see you next week!

  14. AvatarAnna English says

    March 31, 2017 at 6:46 PM

    Happy birthday beautiful girl! Hoping this is your best year YET!

  15. AvatarAdaleta Avdic says

    March 31, 2017 at 10:16 PM

    This is such a beautiful outfit, and I just love the white dress. The patterning is just so beautiful. This post is so powerful and I love all the things you’ve learned in your 30s. Sunscreen became so important to me when I moved to Arizona because it is HOT AF all the time, year round and the sun is beating down on us. I do like the idea of saying no and not giving a reason. Not everyone needs to know why I’m saying NO. Leave me alone haha! xx Adaleta Avdic

  16. AvatarMariam says

    March 31, 2017 at 10:40 PM

    Love all those important life lessons! Thanks for sharing

  17. AvatarMaggie says

    April 1, 2017 at 3:56 PM

    I loved reading this!! So many true statements there 🙂

    http://www.maggiealamode.com

  18. AvatarLeah says

    April 2, 2017 at 9:17 AM

    Great post! I did a similar one when I turned 30, but I have to say I learned so much more from 30-31, than I had all years past! Funny how life works. Love that dress!!

  19. AvatarJessica says

    April 2, 2017 at 6:05 PM

    Happy birthday! Wearing sunscreen and calling my parents often are definitely things I learned in my 20s too!
    xo Jessica
    http://www.whatsfordinneresq.com

  20. AvatarAlex says

    April 2, 2017 at 8:16 PM

    Okay, so basically all of these are serious gold! I wish all of us soon to be 20s and people like me in mid-20s could read this, because it’s so true!

    http://adoredbyalex.com

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